Three Avenues to Ask

"Most people are willing to change, not because they see the light, but because they feel the heat." Unknown author

· Asking yourself,

· Asking others, and

· Asking God.

Asking Yourself

Curiosity (and courage) about our own lives empower us to move beyond what is to what could be. A challenge I face is the barrage of media and daily essentials that bombard my thinking and attention, which have a numbing effect on asking essential questions. It takes deliberate unplugging to stop the cycle. Asking what is right or wrong in my world is a great place to begin. Let the excellent lead to a grateful heart which has tremendous power to overflow into other areas.

For the areas that need an upgrade, ask:

· What can I control that would improve this situation?

· Do I need more knowledge for change to occur?  

· Are my attitudes or emotions preventing a shift?

· What or who can help me create the desired changes?

A few years ago, I was at a crossroads and did not want to continue in the same profession, but I felt stuck both by external and internal circumstances. The external situation resolved itself when I admitted to myself what I wanted—and delineated the steps which would be involved in learning new skills. This gave me the courage to forge ahead. Eventually, it led to a fresh start and a new business. I've never looked back - but I do continue to ask:

· What's next?

· What's missing?

· Who can help?

Next week, we'll explore how asking others can unlock endless possibilities. Until then, bring along Kipling’s great friends:

· What?

· Why? 

· When?

· How?

· Where?

· Who?